Reflections 

Funny how life goes on but leaves those marks on our lives. This time of reflection certainly brings the happiest memories with a dash of sadness.

I spent my morning listening and watching some old school videos from the 90’s. As I listened it brought me back to some of the most happiest times in my life. I was enjoying my last couple years in high school with my close friends, partying, going out to eat and meeting new people, and also we all had good grades in school. I was preparing to go off to college, making our visits to different colleges. Boy did we have some fun times that makes me smile. 

The 90’s is also brought some of happiest moments after high school I had my first born daughter. We would go to my older cousins baseball games at the park, have family picnics, family gatherings where we would eat and watch Video Soul and movies. 

I could go on and on with all these great memories here. I have so many funny stories that makes me smile and laugh. I share them with my kids. 

    
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http://youtu.be/8-WFNbMohTQ

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Regrets

This is a great read by PositiveMed that I’m sharing. One of the ways of staying healthy and living happy is to make better choices for ourselves. After my surgery for my illness hyperthyroidism and Graves’ disease, I made it my business to learn how to handle stressful situations and not allowing stressful people and or things get to me.  In this read it talks about our choices we make that later may come back to haunt us, in the form of regrets. This emotion regret is a negative conscious and emotional reaction to personal past acts and behaviors. Wishing we would have done things differently, blaming ourselves for bad outcomes. 

Regrets will keep us trapped in the past, ignoring the present. Hold us back from taking chances. Keeping us blaming ourselves for mistakes that we made, when in the end of it all no one is perfect but God. I think the best way to cope with them would be to accept, if you have any, learn and move forward with your life. 

 

 

10 Choices You Will Regret In 10 Years

Regret is often the bitterest pill to swallow, and regret is a painful emotion that often gets worse over time, rather than better. To avoid feeling regret someday, here are ways to steer clear of this destructive mental state:

10 Choices You Will Regret In 10 Years

1. Don’t let someone else dictate your dreams. In order to live a full and happy life, you have to be authentically you. Never allow someone else to tell you what career path to follow, or whom to love. Allow yourself to know what you enjoy and what makes you happy, and then make sure you are free to do so. Don’t be afraid of being misunderstood by others – the only person that really needs to understand what you are doing is you.

2. Be careful of the company you keep. Even if you aren’t worried about losing your reputation by surrounding yourself by bad people, negative people they will inevitably be a negative influence on your spirits. Instead, open your life and make room for the people who make you feel good about yourself, your life and goals and who will be a positive influence.

3. Stop faking it. You should never have to hide your true self in this world, especially if it is to make others think better of you. Being authentic to yourself allows you to fully enrich all aspects of your personality.

4. Keep growing. Learn something new, however small, every day. This keeps you from missing out on new opportunities.

5. Never give up. Learn to see set-backs as lessons, not failures and use the lesson to grow.

6. Be kind, Always. The most painful regrets often involve critical words, ego clashes or selfishness. Remember that kindness is what makes people missed, not cruelty.

7. Don’t procrastinate – It goes faster than you think. Never assume you have an unlimited number of tomorrows. Get started on your dreams now!

8. Take responsibility. Be an adult, admit your faults and weaknesses, and make the changes to get your life and maturity in order.

9. Don’t settle. If you know you deserve better, move on. Period.

10. Let the little things slide. There are enough big problems in this world. Don’t borrow worry.


In life we all are faced with regrets some linger, some go away after time. Look at yourself lovingly and turn things around. Embrace your mistakes and know you are not perfect. 🌸Thanks for stopping by. Enjoy your week.🌸

 

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Being Alone

Your life will get better when you realize it’s better to be alone than to chase people who don’t really care about you…

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Sometimes we need reminders to remember simple things that some of us do when we want to be among certain people’s company or their friendship, in a relationship,  etc.

You have to step back and remember that you are awesome in your own way and chasing, kissing someone’s behind is not worth your time. And really these people can careless about you or your feelings. A lot of times they are selfish or involved with other things and or people, or persons.

My advice is to keep doing you and stay focused on the positives in your life, after all whoever and whatever God have for you will be for you in the end, and you don’t have to chase anyone to get what’s for you!

Good Night!

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Life Lessons

Life never stops moving forward. Stay focused and never slow down because of regrets. Smile, forgive, forget and move on.

No matter what happens and anything we go through, Life doesn’t wait for any of us to catch up. When you things don’t go your way or anything bad happens, don’t lose your focus over any should have, would have, and or could have. Pray and pick yourself up and let that light a “Fire” under you to get busy and continue moving Forward! Let the situation or whatever happened to be a learned lesson. Prayer always works along with moving on.

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