Life Lessons 

When you learn to give yourself a break and feel okay about not being able to live up to impossible standards, then you can begin to get the worry-free rest your mind and body so badly need. 

A big reminder that I needed to hear! Trying to do to much at once. I’m always busy and so used to juggling many different things. Until a good friend of mines had a long talk with me and told that I needed to slow down. So I have made a list of goals that I’m working on and also giving myself some time to relax. My body is thanking me and I’m sharing with you! 



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Listening to: Raphael Saadiq ft Q-Tip


Self Worth…..Don’t force yourself in Anyone’s Life!

I won’t force myself to have space in your life because if you know my worth, you’ll create one for me.


When someone isn’t willing to make time and space for you in their life, it is usually because they don’t respect how special of a person that you really are. They may genuinely like or love you, but we must all remember that showing love to someone is more than just telling them it every once in a while.

Don’t force yourself to have space in a person’s life that doesnt recognize your worth. Instead use the time and energy that you want to dedicate to people of this nature in an effort to better yourself. Work on yourself, and work on the other relationships that matter to you, so that you may easily become the best you by the end of your lifetime.

Always respect those who have to be in your life, but also recognize that those who see your potential are those who will probably be of most help and most love to you during life’s difficulties.



Rocking my Viva Glam Nicki by Mac Cosmetics!
Listening to Song: Lady Dujour by Johnny Gill
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Take Me….As I Am…

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout:
This is me damn it!  I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel,
love the way I love!  I am a whole complex package.  Take me. . . or leave me.
Accept me–or walk away!  Do not try to make me feel like less of a person,
just because I don’t fit your idea of who I should be and don’t try to change
me to fit your mold.  If I need to change, I alone will make that decision.
When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad–
you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you….Stacey Charter




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Featuring my Pretty shirt given to me by my mother in law! Love it.
The song that fits this perfectly and I’m listening to now is “Take Me As I Am” by Mary J. Blige.
Mac Cosmetics: Blush: Peaches
Mascara: False Lashes
Bronzer: Gold Deposit
Lipglass: Rising Sun